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DIG DEEP | NO MORE VICTIM MINDSET

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LOOK IN THE MIRROR

A man cannot take from a woman what she isn't already or willing to give. So, stop the victim mindset. Stop the pity party and hold yourself accountable for putting yourself in situations that do not align with your values. By doing so, it helps you level up and allows you identify areas in your life where you need healing. Ego is not your friend, it will have you blaming everyone else but yourself. Slow down and look inward. Self reflect, ask yourself the "why" questions. Ask yourself those tough questions so you can find the truth that will ultimately set you free. Ask yourself why you settled with someone who didn't see you as worthy... Ask "Why did I choose to stay even after he or she showed me countless times that they weren’t willing to treat me better.” Ask “Why am I so scared to walk away from this abusive and disrespectful partner.” I promise you this, the day you become honest with yourself to ask yourself these questions and truly seek to know the answers to these questions, will become the day you embark on your healing journey. Look yourself in the mirror and be honest with yourself. Are you really happy? Get to the root cause of what led you into the hands of an abuser. Self-Forgiveness is a must to achieving this freedom. Be so focus on setting yourself free. Put an end to the pain and suffering. Enough is enough. Stop wasting time on pointing fingers at others. Dig deep to know the answers to the questions so you can be free. And more importantly this freedom is vital to your mental health because with sound mental health you can live your best life.

Love & Light Always

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